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cathinthecity airport style london cathrine heienberg

cathinthecity airport style london cathrine heienberg

Hi my loves. I’m back from an amazing couple of days in London, I’ve had such a great time! I’m so sorry for not blogging as frequently as I usually do, but we were seriously on the run all day every day. The only time I could sit down was for eating and peeing, hah. Other than that, we were running around having a blast. That’s always how it is when you just have a few days in a big city – you want to see and do everything! But now I’m back to my usual blogging routine, and I have so many pictures to show you. This morning is being spent in total relaxation, these kinds of trips are so exhausting even though they’re tons of fun.

And girls, I just want to address something that made me so frustrated last night. I almost never get mean comments, but last night I got one that made me think.. It wasn’t even that bad, it said that I looked fat and that my thighs were ‘not so small’. The thing is, I don’t give a flying fuck what other people think of my body. I love that I have meat on my bones, and couldn’t care less if someone thinks otherwise. What made me so frustrated, however, was thinking about other girls who read my comments.. What if someone who is my size, or bigger than me, reads this? By posting a comment like that, you don’t only offend the blogger, you offend thousands of other girls as well. Is that really what you want? Do you want to be such a mean person? Personally I can’t comprehend that anyone would want to be that mean. What I’m trying to say is that for those of you who like to post trashy comments on blogs, try to think about the bigger picture. As I said I almost never get mean comments, but I know that a lot of other bloggers get them all the time. I don’t mean that you’re not allowed to post critisism or negative comments, but by commenting negatively on a person’s look, you’re contributing to thousands of innocent girls’ self esteem as well. And that is NOT okay. Isn’t it hard enough being a girl, with a pressure from society to look a certain way, weigh a certain weight etc. as it is? Why should we fuck up each other’s self esteem, when we in stead could build each other up and make the world a better place to be? 

Luckily I feel like all my readers only want to build me up, and I appreciate all the comments I get so much that I can’t put it into words. It’s just something that I had to get off of my chest, even though I know it doesn’t apply to most of my readers. I think ‘fat’, ‘skinny’, and other words describing another person’s weight should be banned. Like I said, I honestly don’t care if I’m called fat, but for another girl it could be her breakingpoint. I definitely know that if someone called me fat when I was 16 and more insecure, I would take it way harder. Bottom line: Think twice before calling someone names. Think three times, four times, or even five times if you have to. Take as long as you need to come to the conclusion that you should just shut the fuck up in stead. 

Wowza, that was so good to get off my chest. Now I’m gonna start unpacking, and in a bit I thought I’d show you the result of my shopping spree if you guys wanna see? :) Have a lovely day sweets♥

Comments

  1. LOL at the person who made that stupid comment about your body. Haters gon’ hate. Haha. You look friggin’ AMAZING !!!! Work it girl!

    That being said, this outfit is gorgeous! I just ordered the same bag from NLY, it looks super chic. Can I ask you where are you boots from? :)

    xx Marilou

  2. I have never understood why someone even bother to comment something negative to blogs. I think if you don’t like the blog/blogger should you just stop reading it so we would avoid these stupid means comments… I can’t believe how someone can even put energy on saying something which can hurt someoneand think that’s ok… All in all, i love ur blog. You’re amazing :)

  4. Du er aldeles nydelig fra topp til tå, og er utrolig glad for å lese at du ikke tar det til deg får det bør du ikke heller!! Og for en fin tekst du skrev også, veldig sant det du sier:)

  8. Nydelige bilder som alltid! <3
    Jeg blir seriøst frustert av sånne kommentarer :O For det første, hvem er det som sier sånt til hverandre?!?! Og du er jo langt i fra feit, du har en veldig fin figur! Du er et forbilde for mange jenter, inkludert meg.. Jeg synes det er bra at du reagerer på den måten du gjør, for det er jo faktisk sant det du sier om at det kan påvirke mange flere enn deg! Håper du ikke lar den kommentaren gå inn på deg, for det er langt fra sannheten i hvert fall :O

  9. Du ser FANTASTISK ut, og det er bra å høre at du ikke lar andres idioti gå innpå deg. De som setter seg ned og tar seg tid til å skrive slik dumskap til andre, må ha veldig store problemer de nekter å innrømme om seg selv. Det er vel oftest lettere å bare dytte den dårlige selvfølelsen sin over på andre enn å takle den selv… Det er så utrolig unødvendig.

    Bra å høre at du har hatt det fint i London! :) Gleder meg til å se bilder. http://www.renatesreiser.com

  11. Hello gorgeous! You are one of my favorite bloggers and I absolutely love your style<3 And it is so refreshing to read posts like this! Fashion is for everyone! Greetings from Finland! :)

  12. Thanks for approaching a kind of touchy subject with such an honesty! People shouldn´t care if someone is on the smaller or bigger side, the most important thing is to be comfortable in your own skin. With all this bitchy comments about other peoples bodies (“OMG, she is so skinny, give her some food!” or the other way around) we only hurt ourselfs.

  14. Er dette tull? Den personen bør få øynene sine sjekket! Dette var jo bare til å le av! Men uansett helt enig med deg. Det er skummelt hvor enkelt det tydeligvis er for mange å slenge hets når man sitter “beskyttet” bak et kommentarfelt.

    Fint innlegg :)

  18. Takk for at du deler dette med oss! Det finnes dessverre noen slike “nett-troll” som hele tiden skal ødelegge for andre, og rakke ned og finne feil. Jeg kan tenke meg at det må være ganske tøft for psyken for mange av dere som blogger. Det er jo ikke til å skyve under en stol at det er en utseendefiksert business, og at dere føler dere må se freshe og fine ute på alle bilder. Men derfor burde vi som du sier heller heie på hverandre uansett kroppsfasong og utseende! Jeg digger bloggen din og hvordan du kler deg feminint uten å slavisk følge hver eneste trend. Du har din egen stil, og kler deg fantastisk etter din kroppsfasong (som er helt nydelig btw). Jeg håper virkelig ikke du tar deg nær av denne stygge kommentaren, og at vedkommende føler seg truffet etter dette innlegget og angrer og skammer seg! Jeg heier på deg Cathrine ❤️

  19. It is funny how people can make these comments while they are hidden behind a computer but they never would to your face. I also know that while you say it doesn’t bother you I’m sure it has a little bit, I know it would still bother me as a 22 year old women. You are gorgeous, you have a figure to die for (that tiny waist!!) and you have had so much success that is incredibly enviable. Envy is probably the sole reason someone would make nasty comments. All these silly people making negative comments can go fuck themselves…
    p.s. this outfit is on point!

  20. Wow, that completely shocks me. 1) because you are beautiful and not overweight in any way, and 2) how someone could be so disgustingly mean just boggles my mind. How do people like that sleep at night?! I think you’re response is not only warranted but well written. xx V — http://www.lifeplus1.me —

  22. Det er faktisk helt ufattelig at noen rakker ned på andre for å føle bedre om seg selv.. Men det er veldig bra, og viktig, at du tar tak i det. Veldig bra innlegg! Du ser forøvrig helt fantastisk ut:) ha en fin dag videre

  23. Ikke la slike kommentarer gå inn på deg! Grunnen til at jeg leser din blogg er faktisk at du fokuserer på å nyte livet. Å lese bloggen din gir meg en herlig følelse av velvære og trivsel. Du fokuserer ikke på beinhard trening, slankemat, shaker og andre metoder til å bli tynn og veltrent. Jeg senker skuldrene og lar med inspirere til å reise, lage god mat, være med venner og familie osv. Og kroppen din, den er jo bare den ultimate jentekroppen! Vær så snill å ikke la slike kommentarer gå inn på deg, og tenke at du bør bli kvitt noen kilo.. Jeg vet hvor lett det er å få de tankene. Nei, du er nydelig som du er, og fortsett på samme måte som før! Livet er for kort til å ikke nyte det :)

  31. Tusen takk for kjempefin kommentar! Jeg lar det virkelig ikke gå inn på meg, blir bare utrolig sint på vegne av alle som leser disse stygge kommentarene og tar de til seg :/ ♥

  37. I have been a reader of your blog for a long time now and I have always been so happy about reading it pretty much on a daily basis. And having read your post, I just wanted to thank you for being such a wonderful, open-minded and real (really) blogger. I am amazed by your attitude towards life and to be honest, there are many things people can learn from you, even if it is through your blog. Thank you for being a great example to those who look up at you. And also to those who fail to see the real beauty in life, as they lose a lot. You are beautiful!

    Keep up the wonderful work you do with your blog! Loving it!!!

  44. Thanks for your sweet words ♥ Honestly, it doesn’t bother me at all. But it would have in the beginning of my blogging career, and when I was younger. I don’t think it’s offensive to be told that I’m not stick thin, I actually like being a little curvy. But other girls can easily take offense to that, and that’s what I hate :/

  53. Åh, så fantastisk bra skreve! Elsker at søte deg kan komme med sånne “sinna-innlegg”! Og for ein utrulig tullete kommentar og komme med, du ser dødsbra ut :) tenker det kvergang eg er innpå bloggen din at du har ein nydelig kropp :) Men det er og den fine personligheten din som skine gjennom som gjer deg flott :)

  54. Du ser jo rålekker ut! Herregud, jeg digger utseende ditt. personlig sett synes jeg jo lår er veldig fint, og det får jo en til å se feminin ut, og det passer jo stilen din :) Synes du rett og slett ser herlig og badass ut. Stay that way! :)

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